A Summer Cheat
We keep real milk in the house during the winter, but during the summer, we switch to soy milk. (In the summer we like fruit smoothies, and soy milk makes a better smoothie.)
With soy milk and a little extra (peanut) oil, one can make a decent "American" whole wheat bread. In the old days, I would have used a can of evaporated milk.
It is not as good as real American whole wheat bread made with real milk, but it is good enough that not everyone will notice the difference, and if they are not accustomed to your good fresh breads, they will be grateful for having nice fresh home baked bread. (Remind them that rich flavor and dense texture are virtues of the design and production - not defects.)